Male submissive. Mid 50’s. Heterosexual. Kept in strict chastity 24/7/365 by my wonderful Keyholder Wife. I only cum with Her permission. Into leather and latex, heels and boots. Usually reblogs, often with some creative writing (hopefully). I hope you enjoy my blog too, especially my 4,000+ followers, to whom I am very grateful for joining me on my journey. NSFW 18+ obviously.
Sexuality is a reflection of the soul. You can’t switch off or alter your sexuality any more than you can switch off or alter your soul.
I am an independent person, but a part of me wants to belong. To belong with someone, to belong to my significant other. To be hers. With the cage she tells me: “I love you and I want you to be mine”. With the cage I tell her: “I love you and I am yours alone”. I enjoy knowing that only she can play with my cock and that it is safely put away when she doesn’t.
I want to make other people happy. It is who I am. Above all, I want to make her happy. In the bedroom, her pleasure is my pleasure. I want to give her all the pleasure she desires, and only receive the pleasure which pleases her. I love it when she takes the time to tease and deny me. Sometimes I am weak or selfish, but I get through because I am safely locked up. I thank her for holding the keys and taking control of my cock. My chastity is indefinite, only her desire and not time can release me.
My chastity is not a sentence, I am not inferior, I do not crave humiliation. I am not ashamed of my penis and I do not want to be a girl. I am in chastity because it makes me happy as a person and as a man.
For a long time I was confused about my desire to be in chastity. I resisted the notion that I am submissive and that I want her to be my Dominant. I am and I do. I want her to use me for her pleasure, and I crave giving her all the pleasure I am capable of. The tight steel cage, locked 24/7/365 around my cock and balls, is a powerful and inescapable expression of her loving dominance and my willing submission.
Chastity is the fundamental expression of my submissiveness, but it is not the only one. Other areas of the BDSM territory may also come into play, because it offers so many symbols and myriad ways to express her sexual ownership of my cock and my body. Pain may be involved, but it is never to be applied cruelly or sadistically, always lovingly and respectfully. Chastity play is for romance, not for torture.